Festivals, Blessings and Tikka

The last two weeks have been a blur of festivals and blessings and so much tikka I’m afraid to report that my forehead is stained red. We went to Pokhara, we attended a wedding, we have visited friends, but it wasn’t all play I promise! We also squeezed in a training session for early years teachers at Rock Regency which was really well received.

Pokhara was hot, hot, hot. We arrived after a frightful journey that took over eight hours and many breakdowns to a huge thunderstorm. The following morning the town was scrubbed clean and the sun beat down on us as we explored the lake and the town. We later went to Begnas Lake, about half an hour away from the tourist strip of Pokhara. It is very very beautiful, a bit like a cross between places I have seen in England and Italy, but of course, very Nepalese with rice fields cutting own to the lake, and not fields of sheep like at home. We walked down to the lake and Janaki and I put our tired feet in it. Eagles swooped low over the water as we made our way slowly back up the hill. Just as we reached our homestay, suddenly the huge peaks of the Annapurna range appeared over the clouds, unbelievably big and white, like jagged teeth.

After driving back to Pokhara and doing some resources shopping and (very important) present buying for people back home, we returned to Tansen in the comfort of a little car in four hours flat.

The training was building on the early years work we had done with the teachers at Devwari school, but on a bigger scale and with more time for us to explain ourselves. Saran did an excellent job of translating, and when he had to pop out to the bank our wonderful friend Sama from Devwari kindly stepped in to help us!

So, we were feeling quite pleased and accomplished last Saturday, when suddenly Dhani and Janaki’s brother appear from the village – Hari had gone to meet a lady there, they had promptly become engaged, and the wedding was in two days. Thinking about the extravagant affairs I’ve been to in the UK, there’s no way they could have been pulled together in just two days, but Dhani and Janaki managed it, buying saris and clothes and jewels and makeup and scarves for the bride. Ever on the lookout for excuses to buy clothes, I happily went off and ordered myself some traditional clothes, careful not to choose any red. Only married ladies are supposed to wear red, and I didn’t want to be the Western girl making a big social faux pas at the wedding.

We ate a traditional Newari meal with Sagar’s family on Sunday night, and it was fascinated to see the men all lined up in age order eating from banana leaves, and I sat next to the youngest grandson, who spoke flawless English. We went downstairs and sat on the balcony while the men drank and smoked, discussing politics and how Nepal was 250 years behind the rest of the world, and how much they honoured their culture and traditions. Somebody produced an enormous tortoise that had once famously been mauled by a jungle leopard, Sagar set the floor on fire with some home brewed wine, and we decided it was time to go home.

Monday came, and we were late for the wedding while we waited anxiously for the groom’s suit to be finished at the tailors and sent over to us – only very slightly cutting it fine! The wedding was beautiful, the bride looked gorgeous, draped in yards of red fabric and adorned with thousands of sequins, beads, and gold jewellery. I didn’t follow much of the religious parts, but as far as I could see there was a lot of blessing going on, and praying together, and promising to look after each other. She was only a year older than me, and though here it is completely normal, I wondered how I would feel if my parents had chosen a husband for me. It made me laugh to see large groups of men sitting around chatting while the blessings were taking place, and if we had been in England I’m sure every one of them would have had a pint in his hand.

We spent the day after Desain at our friend Sama’s house with her lovely family. We were blessed and given fruit and fed, twice! We watched family videos on the tv and her young brother, the same age as my own, had performed an incredibly complicated dance to Justin Bieber at his school performance. George, if you’re reading this, I love you to pieces but it must be said your dancing skills are not quite so accomplished…

Some balloons, and a performance of The Very Hungry Caterpillar

As anyone who has ever heard me talk about teaching would know, I love the babies and the littles. So to my delight last Wednesday I got to spend the morning in the nursery at Debvari school, not so much teaching the children (as my Nepali is currently limited to ‘hello,’ ‘thank you,’ and ‘honeybee’) but playing with them. This was to hopefully give their teacher some ideas about teaching engaging lessons such as using cards to get the children talking, using construction cubes to identify colours and strengthen fine motor skills, teaching them a song, and pretending to be different animals. We finally unleashed all mayhem on the class when Saran whipped out some balloons. In all honesty we lost them at that point, so we let them run riot and trample us chasing balloons around the tiny classroom.

After this, I asked via Saran if she could teach so I could get a feel for how the nursery is run. After a few fast words in Nepali, the children all cracked out their copy books and started furiously writing down the English alphabet, some from memory, most peering at the paintings on the wall to help them. There was some definite resentment about putting the balloons away. Needless to say the teaching methods here are very different to those in British nurseries.

We went to visit Papaldanda the next day with armfuls of books to work with the children in the nursery. Barbara and I aped around making fools of ourselves to the hysteria of the children, and showing the teachers how to use resources to count, talk about colour, and doing lots of work with an alphabet foam mat. We watched some lessons in the afternoon, and I was fascinated to see the teacher’s toddler following her around the class. At one point he climbed on top of a desk and other than scooping him back onto the floor, both she and the students completely ignored him. Barbara tells me that it’s very common to take your children to school with you, especially in the village schools.

More teacher training on Friday, we went back to Debvari to work with the nursery, class one and class two teachers. I talked about using lots of different activities to break up the day, and we gave them a table of ideas to use. The three teachers were brilliant, taking on our ideas, and then we went down to a classroom show them what we were talking about, playing with balloons, alphabet shapes, and jigsaws. I gave the performance of my life when I read The Very Hungry Caterpillar to a large crowd of children and teachers with as much gusto as I could muster. I’ll be expecting that Oscar any day now. The schools have now broken up for Deshain, the Hindu equivalent of Christmas, some for as long as a month, some for a couple of weeks.

Barbara, Janaki and I have big plans for a trip to Pokhara, and I must confess I’m looking forward for a few days of downtime. We’ve had such an intense few weeks with school visits, training, not to mention settling into a new country, and I’m feeling particularly sluggish because I’m definitely not drinking enough. I can practically hear my mother recoiling in horror at that last sentence. I keep being woken up in the night by the sounds of bugs hurling themselves at my window, and the spiders here are bigger than my hand – I physically shudder each time I see one hanging in the middle of its enormous web.

Oh, and this week, after giving a lot of big talk at dinner one night that I ‘never get bitten,’ I have been chewed to death by some particularly mean spirited mosquitoes. That’ll serve me right. It’s like that time at Delhi airport when I blithely said, ‘Oh we’ve had such an easy journey so far!’ Only to be sent packing to Kolkata on our doomed flight to Kathmandu.

H x

A birthday, a new school, and a lot of head teachers

We celebrated Barbara’s birthday last weekend! The Bashyals surprised her with a cake and I bought her the most ridiculous party hat I could find, and we had an evening of take away food and local beer, shared with a very well dressed Swiss couple. Me and Barbara had spent the Saturday morning working and planning the head teacher’s session, before going out to stretch our legs around Tansen.

While Barbara knows Tansen like the back of her hand, I am quite sure I’ll be losing my way around its winding streets for some time. 

We walked up to Srinegar Hill and though it has rained quite heavily since we arrived, (Dhani had already rescued me from falling flat on my face on the steep and very slippery slope up to the homestay that morning) the sun beat down on us and we were quite hot by the time we reached the top (i.e. I was a sweating mess). As we watched, gaps in the clouds revealed the pink and yellow shapes of mountains, though I could never be sure if I was looking at shifting clouds or solid rock. I’m promised that you can see nearly the entire Annapurna range on a clear day, so I’m sure I’ll be back up there for another gawk before long.

We made our way back through the town, and it was almost eerie seeing everything shut up and closed except for a few food stalls. Saturdays are rest days, so the children are home from school and most of the shops are shut tight. Children raced down the steep streets, pausing in their games only to shout: ‘Where are you from?’ I feel like I am asked this question a hundred times a day, I might start fibbing and telling people somewhere exotic like Hawaii or the Seychelles.

On Sunday we visited the Devbari school in Tansen, just down the hill from our office at the Red Cross building. We met the head and his deputy who were fantastic, so forward thinking and grateful that we were there. They were arguing for more continuous assessment instead of the painful exams the children have to endure each term (Abhi, the Bashyal’s son, is currently doing an exam a day for seven days – and he does this four times a year, a whole month of exams in the school year that might be better used for teaching and revising methods perhaps?). They were also eager to create a science laboratory in the school, and said that a teachers training is never done, and every single member of staff at the school, both government and private, could benefit from extra training. Barbara and I left quite pleased and hopeful.

On Tuesday we held a head teachers meeting at Rock Regency, a hotel in town. Eighteen head teachers and deputies came to see us, and Barbara asked them to organise their priorities for the children (things like success, exam results, happiness, safety) and discuss what had gone well in their schools over the last year, and touched on early years practices. I stood up and spoke about utilising the libraries more successfully, making sure that the teachers are sharing books with the children, and most importantly, are listening to the children read and checking their reading ability and engagement with the stories. We want to ensure that teachers are not just sat passively in the corner of the room while the children read silently on the floor. I was so hot as I spoke, not nervous so much as just very aware that everybody was looking at me, I was astounded to see that some people were even taking notes! After this little rush, I had to go and turn the fan on to calm down, and everyone laughed at me.

It was agreed that Barbara, myself, Saran and Sagar - our champion translators and the core of Manisha Nepal Palpa - deserved a slap up lunch to celebrate. We might have had to wait over an hour for our food, but to pass the time Sagar was telling us about Russia in the early nineties (all vodka coupons and swimming in frozen lakes) so I decided to have another crack at War and Peace that night. I think I made it through about five pages on the kindle before falling asleep. Sorry Tolstoy.

And one from last week with Ann!

Greetings from Tansen!

And so, we are here. After a journey of quite unbelievable stress, we managed to get to Tansen last Saturday. First, our plane to Kathmandu spent a long time circling a delta somewhere in northern India, before announcing that he was not allowed to use the runway because ‘it is being fixed’ (despite our friend Ann having landed there as he was speaking) .The pilot also said, ‘we are about to run out of fuel’ before promptly making a diversion to Kolkata (Calcutta to you and me) where we spent a long time lounging around on the floor of the airport whilst several hysterical Brits hurled abuse at the equally hysterical airport workers, who didn’t know what to do with the 61 people suddenly stuck in their airport. Eventually we were bustled to a very swanky five star hotel an hour away, before having to return to the airport at the crack of dawn the next day.

After eventually making it to Kathmandu in one piece, we rushed to the guest house – the outside of which had become a building site, great fun navigating with our heavy bags – and met Ann there after some frantic resources shopping.

Ann was in Nepal to meet Barbara and I from the Steve Sinnott Foundation, with the aim to setting up a resource centre in Tansen for the nine Manisha schools to use, to have ICT facilities, training and resources. So the three of us (hardy travellers by now) made the eleven hour bus journey to Tansen – at times stunningly beautiful, at times incredibly painful, as massive swathes of the road were being resurfaced, meaning that we were diving in and out of pot holes at sickening speeds (no chance of sleep if your head keeps cracking against the window). Still, the drive up the mountain to Tansen from Bhutwal is beautiful, winding along lush roads, the hills smothered with vegetation and so completely unchanged for thousands of years. I half expected prehistoric creatures to start lumbering down the path towards us. Tansen itself, a cluster of buildings high on the hill, appeared around a bend in the road and I could have cried with relief that we were nearly here.

Tansen is, in my opinion, the nicest part of Nepal I have seen, not so dusty and crowded as Kathmandu, not as hot as the southern regions, not as touristy as Pokhara. It is a small bustling town high in the hills, but overlooks mountain ranges and green valleys, and the bucket of the valley is always full of clouds, so that local people call it the white lake. Everyone seems very friendly, the children greet you in the street with a curious ‘Namaste!’ and the Bashyal family we are living with couldn’t be kinder or more welcoming.

Our days have been spent going to meetings around town with various people, the District Education Officer, Sangeeta Regmi, the education resource manager at Sen Secondary School in Tansen, Khadga Kunwar from Room to Read, and we have also squeezed in a visit to Shree Bhagwati School in the hill village of Bhalebas. It shocks me, having taught in Britain for the last year, the conditions the children are learning in, mud walls and cracked concrete floors, and in the nursery and Class One (Year One) the children lie on the floor and copy from textbooks – which means that can copy brilliantly, but they do not actually understand what they are copying. However, the work Manisha has been doing in Nepal for the past few years is really taking hold here, there is children’s work stuck to the walls, the older children are sitting around tables and not in rows, children are standing at the front of the class to share their work and ideas. These are brilliant, positive changes coming about from the hard work of previous NQTs.

Our evenings have been spent sat around the table in Janaki’s green kitchen, laughing and sharing stories, or on the balcony as the sun sets behind us, drinking tea. We sadly had to say goodbye to Ann yesterday as she headed back to the UK, but on our last afternoon together on Wednesday we walked down to Tundi Khel, a large flat expanse on the side of the mountain, as big as a football pitch and lit with floodlights at night. There was a festival there, and we managed to catch the last day of viewing a colossal statue of Ganesh. We were covered in tikka (the red or yellow paint on our foreheads) and ushered in, and noticed an unusual amount of interest in our presence. There was a lot of singing and chanting and we were given bits of unidentified food and covered in yet more tikka, and the statue seemed half alive in the light. We were then asked to pose for seemingly hundreds of photos, and the reason we were so well received is because it is assumed that all white people are Christian, and it is encouraging to see us at Hindu festivals. It’s very embarrassing however to loom over absolutely everyone in photos, even the men. Ann treated me and Barbara to a copper pot each full of holy water, which were so heavy on the way back to the homestay that we had to pour the water out surreptitiously so that we didn’t offend anyone!

 

Apologies for my long, long entry, and the long wait, I’ve been having some teething troubles with the blog! Missing home, hoping that everyone is alright. Somebody please let me know what’s happening in Cold Feet?

H x

Welcome Hannah!

We were delighted that Hannah Detheridge, Worcester University NQT, came through our NQT selection process in March.

Hannah, our second female NQT placement, has all the personal qualities and strength of character that will be invaluable as we continue our teacher training programme and the schools rebuilding programme, in the aftermath of the earthquakes. 

Hannah will be active in Nepal from October 2016 to March 2017.

Thanks and over to you, Hannah! ... 

The trustees of Manisha UK


Hello! My name is Hannah and I've been studying at the University of Worcester and teaching in schools in inner city Birmingham and Worcester before being selected for my placement in Nepal. 

I first went to Nepal when I was fifteen and my little heart never quite recovered, it's a country that truly gets under your skin. I am so excited to be working with Manisha UK!